• Simple Tips That Will Help Your Neurodivergent Child Enjoy Family Events

    On the left side, the Experiential Life logo—a round icon with coral, teal, and navy waves—appears above black text that reads: “CRACKING THE CODE TO FAMILY EVENTS. 16 years in – and yes, hosting parties can be enjoyable again. 5 simple tips to help your autistic child feel safe, seen, and prepared.” At the bottom is the website URL: www.Experiential-Life.com. On the right side of the image is a photo of A, my oldest son, in the middle is C, my autistic son, smiling with his arms outstretched, and on the right is O, my middle son. Behind them is a colorful birthday banner with streamers and balloons hanging from it.

    Simple Tips That Will Help Your Neurodivergent Child Enjoy Family Events Family Events Shouldn’t Feel Like a Trade-Off Do large family events trigger your neurodivergent child? Do you decline attending or even hosting because the exchange of extended family time for a meltdown is an exchange not worth making? Not to be dramatic, but after […]

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  • From Sit-Ins to Spotlights: Protecting Disability Rights

    On the left is an image of Judy Heumann - disability advocate - holding a sign that says, "No more negotiation - Sign 504." To the right is the caption, "They fought for our rights. Now it’s on us to protect them. What happens next could limit your neurodivergent child’s rights."

    From Sit-Ins to Spotlights: Protecting Disability Rights Last weekend, my autistic son performed with 59 other kids (with and without disabilities) on an accessible stage, in front of nearly 1,000 community members. . My middle son (who we call “O” around here) sits on the left with C, my autistic teen, in the middle, and I […]

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  • How to Keep Your Neurodivergent Child Calm in the ER

    C, Christy's neurodivergent son, sits in the ER with his orange iPad in his lap, a bright green wrap around the IV in his arm, and his eyes are bright red and almost swollen shut. The caption reads, "How to Keep Your Child Safe in the ER, and 3 Proven Strategies That Will Help."

    When the doctor came in with a grim look on her face, I felt all the relief turn into panic.

    It’s hard to remain calm in an emergency… But we need to, for our children’s sake.

    Next time you find yourself in the ER, remember these 3 proven strategies to help keep your neurodivergent child calm.

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  • How to Successfully Advocate for Your Neurodivergent Child

    "C", Christy's autistic son, stands with his arms spread out wide, wearing a cowboy hat. He is in an empty waiting room. The caption reads, "How to Successfully Advocate for Your Neurodivergent Child."

    We believe the medical professionals when they tell us what is right for our child.

    But there is a huge gap between what we know about our kids and what they know about our kids.

    13 years later, and I still get calls weekly from people trying to figure it out. They want to honor their and their child’s limitations while not limiting their child’s potential.

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